BDSM Dominatrix & FemDom in NYC
Love and Power in New York City
Power was my first true love. Gender and sex have always paled in comparison to it. It was never someone’s gender that drew me to them, but rather how they played with it. How they carried themselves, and how they relinquished their power to me. How they acquiesced control, letting me bring them to the edge of what they could bear for my amusement. How they begged me to break them so I could show them how strong they are. How they took pleasure in my pleasure and how eager they were to be of use to me.
I found language for my sadism when I was eighteen and I began my training as a dominatrix at an old-guard BDSM training chateau in Upstate New York, where I studied Femdom and embodied the art of BDSM. I have been studying power dynamics in many modalities ever since, taking things from my old-guard training that serve me and releasing the protocols that do not. I’m always collaboratively creating new ones in their place with partners and with community.
I am intuitive by nature. While I am not a mind reader, I am frequently asked how I can so easily read someone, even their most well-hidden desires. If allowed, I’ll slip into your head, plant my seeds, and step back to watch them grow into something devastatingly beautiful.Perhaps that’s something you’ve always dreamed of? Your destruction (and reconstruction) has never looked so good, darling.
When you are aware of the way that power dynamics play out in the inception of desire, the creation of the world, and the systems that surround us, you realize how this awareness can give someone like me the ability to easily manipulate someone like you to their will.
Lucky for you, I only play with individuals who share a common goal: your utter and complete submission.
I realized my power at a very young age and have spent the last twenty years learning to hone my intuition, cultivate my power… and control my natural sadism.
Experience NYC’s Top Dominatrix
As one of NYC’s top dominatrixes, I am ethical with sharp wit and a well-honed blade. I have a modest harem of devoted submissives, both in New York City and from around the world, who serve me and wear my collar. (Quality, not quantity; do you get it yet?)
With almost 16 years of experience in the BDSM community and experience offering professional BDSM sessions in NYC, I have the privilege of being very selective about who I choose to see.
D/s relationships and leather are a lifestyle for me. I live, love, and breathe leather. I take my high protocol submissive training very seriously, and enjoy shaping submissives to bring me precise and elegant pleasure.
I will teach you exactly where it is that you belong, little one. And I think that you’ll find peace there.
While my sessions may be therapeutic, I am not a therapist. You may find my sessions to be healing, though I am not a healer. I believe that everyone has their own innate capacity to heal themselves—in solitude, partnership, and in community. I believe that ritual and BDSM are just a couple of the paths to reach plastic states of altered consciousness (like topspace or subspace).
As a certified yoga instructor and full-spectrum doula in New York City, I love creating self-care regimens for devoted submissives. I believe that anyone offering themself to me for service should strive to serve themselves in the same capacity they do for me. After all, you wouldn’t want to treat something that belongs to me poorly, would you?
As a professional dominatrix and lifestyle femdom, I have no problem asking for exactly what I want and telling you precisely what I want you to do for me. Though serious and strict, if you approach me with respect, you will find me remarkably down to earth and easy to be around.
I am a woman who knows what she wants, and exactly how to get it from you.
Performance, Power Dynamics, and BDSM in New York City
I am particularly fond of exploring your secret needs, desires, and urges. I enjoy guiding you to your emotional edges, and holding the space for you to explore previously uncharted or repressed territory.
I love tears, asceticism, and suffering for self-knowledge and self-improvement.
My personal and professional BDSM interests are vast and varied. I enjoy natural submission and offering. I seek submissives who trust that I will take them to where they need to go. I like to utilize and torment all of your senses, bending you completely to my will, and training you up to my impeccable standards.
I have a very fulfilling, interdisciplinary life on top of my interests and studies in BDSM and my work as a dominatrix. I work at the intersection of tech, community organizing, and public health. I am a recipient of the 2020 Barlow Pioneer Award from EFF. I am a writer and an artist. I am part of a NYC BDSM reading group with some of the leading scholars and artists in contemporary BDSM theory.
I host workshops on the healing potential of BDSM in New York and around the world. I lecture at some of the top universities and I write educational pieces on my BDSM practices. I have been featured in Psychology Today, Hustler, Vice, Glamour, BuzzFeed, and more. I’ve been quoted as an expert in the BDSM field in more publications than I can count.
I spend the majority of my time in New York tending to my hedonistic desires, taking care of my body and mind. I bring all aspects of myself to my work: my intellect, my wit, my curiosity, and my desire to challenge you.
Power is relevant to everything that we do. This is why I have no interest in the performance of power for someone else’s desire. A session with me is not a performance, it is an experience—if you allow it to be. I tap in an archetype of power that fits our dynamic: dominatrix, goddess, femdom, mommy, daddy, babysitter… the possibilities are limited only by your imagination.
I explore what power feels like in the body when wielded responsibly and intelligently. I ask questions. What does it feel like to be invited to remain present while moving through discomfort? Where do you find vulnerability and strength in your submission? How can we integrate newfound awareness gleaned through submission into our lives?It is through intention that what we call “play” becomes power, and it is through taking the first step that you can learn the strength in submission.
Mistress Blunt’s BDSM and ProDomme Experience
As a native New Yorker (Upstate! Don’t get mad) and my involvement in New York City’s BDSM scene since I was 18-years-old, I am well versed with all that the city has to offer both in kink and culture. After running my own private dungeon for eight-years, I am now offering sessions in four and five star boutique hotels in New York and have access to some of the best equipped dungeons in New York. Aesthetically speaking, I prefer to play in the light of beautifully designed spaces with ample light. As an aesthete, visuals are everything to me and my journey in BDSM has been about taking BDSM out of the dungeon and into the light. One of my favorite things about New York is all of the gorgeous boutique hotels and the way that the furniture contained within can be perverted into beautiful bondage furniture.
Of course I still maintain one of the best whip collections in New York city, and all of the toys a submissive could dream of. These days, though, I find that my mind, my body, and how I dress for my pleasure are my favorite tools to use for domination. While I do love a good implement, as I have grown in my dominance, I have found myself relying on them less and digging deeply into the psyche more.
As a lifestyle dominatrix that offers both classic domination sessions as well as GFE Domination in New York City, my practice benefits from occupying a more domestic space, such as a hotel suite. I want to know what you look like kneeling at the edge of the bed, how flustered you get when answering the door for room service in a robe and chastity cage, and for you to see the pleasure of running me a bath and tending to my demanding desires and pleasures.
What to Expect from a BDSM Session with Mistress Blunt
A BDSM session with me in New York City is more than just a fleeting encounter—it is an orchestrated experience, a carefully crafted piece of co-created art where every moment is designed to deepen your submission, heighten your senses, and leave an indelible mark on your psyche.
Perhaps our time together begins with an indulgent, tantalizing evening at one of NYC’s renowned classic restaurants—Pastis or Balthazar. As we sip our wine and lose ourselves in conversation, you will find yourself subtly, inexorably drawn under my spell. A whispered command, the delicate brush of my fingers against your wrist, the knowing smirk I give you when I catch you squirming under my gaze. You will feel my dominance begin to wrap around you, making you aware of the control I wield even in public. Even when no one else around us notices. Or maybe they do.
Maybe the evening takes a more clandestine turn, with you awaiting my arrival in the lobby of my favorite boutique NYC hotel, nerves and anticipation coursing through you as I finally step through the doors. You watch as I approach, my presence magnetic, my authority undeniable. Without a word, I take the lead, guiding you toward our room, where your real descent into submission begins. The click of the hotel room door closing behind us signals your surrender. You are now in my world. Bound by my rules, and I have every intention of exploring the depths of your devotion. Now be a good little one, won’t you? And get on your knees.
A FemDom Session as a Work of Art
Every session I conduct is different from the last. A BDSM session with me is a bespoke experience, a collaboration between myself and my submissive. I do not believe in a one-size-fits-all style of domination; rather, I craft each session to reflect our unique dynamic, carefully tailoring every element to bring forth the most potent and memorable experience possible. I use your desires as a palette to paint a scene that will bring us both pleasure, and maybe even some pain for you (if you ask nicely).
When I session in NYC, I have access to my full collection of exquisitely curated artisinal equipment collected over my 17+ years in the industry. I will choose from my array of impact implements, sensory deprivation hoods, body bags, restraints, insertables, medical play kits, anything you could imagine. Everything is carefully arranged before you, ensuring that when our play begins, nothing interferes with the seamless flow of our dynamic. I curate the atmosphere through lighting, music, and the scent of leather and anticipation filling the air. I seek chemistry and fall into Domme space, where I feel like my submissive is an extension of me, an extension of my will. I have been told at times it seems as though I am a mind reader, but really your desires are just so easy to read and wield against you.
BDSM Play Possibilities in New York City
Depending on our shared interests and your level of experience, a session with me might involve:
High Protocol D/s Relationships
My interests revolve around power exchange, and the embodiment of power and powerlessness through a D/s relationship. I enjoy edgeplay and guiding you to your limits. I enjoy creating protocols that are specific to our unique dynamic. The protocol I have developed with one submissive may look drastically different from that of another.
Do you think you have what it takes to meet my high standards? Do you want to be trained by me? Read more.
Power Exchange & Femdom Girlfriend (GFE)
I have always found power intoxicating. Power exchange is inextricably linked to my sexuality and how I conduct my relationships. This offering is for individuals seeking something a little more personal. Intimate, if you will. Our interactions will focus on my desires and delights as I instruct you on how to please me. You do want to please me, don’t you? Read more to find out how.
Psychological domination
My exquisite knowledge of the psyche has always been my favorite tool to wield. Mind games, power exchanges, teasing humiliation, or deep D/s dynamics that leave you questioning just how much of yourself you are willing to surrender to me. You can always go deeper, and I know just what buttons to push to get you there.
Foot Fetish NYC
With the most beautiful feet in all of New York City, and probably the world, wielding your foot fetish and teasing and torturing you with my perfect feet is one of my favorite ways to secure and exploit your submission.
Bondage & Restraint
While psychological restraints are my favorite, perhaps you will find yourself bound in a custom-made rope harness tailored specifically to your flesh, your body helplessly exposed to my whims, locked into a heavy steel collar, each movement reminding you of my control. Or perhaps you are interested in a longer sensory deprivation scene and crave to feel the full enclosure and hug of one of my many body bags.
Sensory Play
A blindfold over your eyes, noise-canceling headphones rendering you deliciously vulnerable as I tease, torment, or deny you. Your world becomes mine—your only anchor is the sensation of my touch, my voice, my command.
Impact Play
The sharp, intoxicating crack of my whip against your skin, the slow, rhythmic build of a flogging session designed to lull you deeper into surrender.
Chastity & Denial
Perhaps your pleasure is not yours to control, and I revel in the frustration and devotion that builds as I hold the key—both literally and figuratively—to your release.
My list of BDSM kinks is long and diverse. Click here to see how you can start serving me.
Lifestyle Domination and Public Play in NYC
Beyond the session itself, NYC provides the perfect backdrop for extending our dynamic into the outside world. We might stroll through Central Park, with you carrying my shopping bags as a silent sign of your service, or visit an elegant speakeasy where you follow my lead in a silent, thrilling game of discreet submission. Perhaps I’ll have you kneel at my feet in a dimly lit private lounge, or send you on carefully crafted errands that remind you that your purpose is to serve me, even when we are apart.
Whether our time together is a structured high-protocol session or an indulgent, drawn-out evening of teasing, denial, and power play, one thing is certain—when you session with me in New York City, you step into my world. A world where my dominance and your submission intertwine seamlessly, where every detail is curated for our pleasure, and where you will leave forever changed, aching for the next time you can surrender to my control.
I am beyond what you could have dreamed. I assure you, you will not be the same.
I am everywhere. Familiarize yourself with my website, my blog, my newsletter, my Twitter, my Instagram, my OnlyFans, my LoyalFans, my Niteflirt, my SextPanther, and my femdom clips. After gaining a better understanding of my style of domination and interest in power exchange, please fill out my submissive application form to request an initial meeting.
Initial meetings often involve a social component so I can assess our compatibility and how your service could fit into my life.