I had the pleasure of meeting Mistress Victoria Robinson at my monthly femdom gathering in New York City, New York. As soon as we began talking, we uncovered uncanny similarities in our BDSM histories, our parents’ professions, our kink interests, our vanilla hobbies (cooking and fermentation), our physiques, and the clients who have graced us …
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International Ms. Bootblack, KD Diamond, came over to chat with Tina Horn and I about bootblacking history in old-guard leather communities. The three of us train some eager submissives in the art of bootblacking. Tina Horn and I volunteer our boots to be polished and worshipped. Below, I’ve included a very horny transcript, edited for …
Mistress Lucy Sweetkill is a woman you don’t want to disappoint. When I asked her if she cooked, she responded that she could cook, but she would rather be fed. Of course, I wanted to make something savory and satiating—and dripping with blood.
During quarantine, one of the ways I’ve been fostering my D/s relationships and keeping in touch with my submissives is having them write me stories about their deepest, darkest desires. I will continue sharing my favorite femdom stories, which have been written for and about me, here on my blog. (You can read through the …
Let’s talk about data, baby! Riddle me this: In a world of metrics, where we can measure the number of air particles per square unit of air, have you ever been curious if we can measure how horny you really are? Can orgasm control be optimized through the study of a submissive’s responses? What the …
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I like to say that BDSM can be therapeutic, but it isn’t therapy. I encourage everyone who is seeing me regularly to find community in the BDSM scene as well as a kink positive therapist. Having a kink aware therapist can be super helpful in processing and integrating what comes up during an intense BDSM …
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One of my submissives is in a female-led relationship (FLR). He is married to his Domme and she sends him to me once a month to whip him into shape. Naturally, I thought it would be fun to interview both him and his dominant wife. You can read part one, where I interview Pretty in Pink, the submissive …
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As a hypnotist dominatrix, I sat down with my erotic hypnosis submissive to discuss intimacy in service-oriented tasks, responsible financial domination on a working class budget, the ordinary ways D/s relationships manifest, and more.
One of my submissives is in a female-led relationship (FLR). He is married to his Domme and she sends him to me once a month to whip him into shape. Naturally, I thought it would be fun to interview both him and his dominant wife. In part one, you’ll meet Pretty in Pink, the submissive …
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Like any relationship, D/s relationships can be both rewarding and challenging. In this interview I chat with Emmy Lewis, my former submissive, about our relationship, D/s dynamics, D/s breakups, service submission, and masochism. We talk about our evolving relationship over the past five years and her current offering as a professional submissive.