Thoughts and musings from Mistress Blunt herself.
You can watch the full clip where I speak about topping from the bottom here. I’m really excited to dive into the topic of topping from the bottom. First, let’s start with the basics. Sometimes I make the assumption that people know what certain BDSM terms and terminologies mean, and I’m trying really hard not …
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Mistress Blunt and Mistress Eva participate in a live storytelling event to co-create one of their dream scenes. Eva Oh is a BDSM Trainer and the creator of #teakink and Safeword Podcast. Her writing has appeared on The Daily Beast and Slutever; and she has been featured in the likes of VICE and DAZED. She also hosts workshops and events on sexuality.
Hello Darlings, I am sure you have all been eager to know the steps that I have been taking in my business to keep myself and my clients safe in this chaotic and scary time of COVID-19. Let me assure you that I have enough latex gloves and cavicide to last me for a few …
I was interviewed for Hustler’s Magazine this week about finding the perfect Dominatrix for you. You can read more of the interview here! “Don’t be a little bitch about being a little bitch.” – Mistress Blunt, NYC Femdom Dominatrix Because choosing the right person to cede control to takes a lot of self-determination.
The thing about BDSM that interests me is a genuine exchange of power. Your submission is a gift. Thank you for letting me play with it. I enjoy dominating individuals who are grounded. Individuals who are submitting to me not out of a place of need but a place of desire. A desire to be …
For a masochist, learning to care for oneself can be challenging. Discriminating between healthy, beneficial behaviors and harmful ones can be difficult when joy can be derived from pain. If pain is perceived as a reward, masochists may have an easier time imprinting self-destructive habits outside of consensual and intentional BDSM practices. In some instances …
As a classically trained dominatrix, there is nothing that I enjoy more than high protocol D/s (Dominance/submission) training. Training a submissive up to my standards creates the building blocks to develop a beautiful and mutually beneficial relationship. A relationship where you are able to serve me to my standards. A relationship where you prioritize my …
For those who asked, here is my holiday wishlist, though to be honest, my life (and closet) are pretty full. And, as always, cash is king. If you’d like to get me something sweet for the holidays this year, I’d adore you stuffing my stocking with cold hard cash. Cash for me to invest, for …
I know, darlings. Perhaps you’re new to this. Perhaps you still think that this relationship is about what you want. But this is about power exchange. This is not about your ego, this is about learning to serve another. I am uninterested in your fantasy. Of course, revealing them to me is encouraged, as it gives …
There is a question on my intake form that asks, “When was the last time you cried?” While all of the answers that I receive are fascinating and revealing, the one that stood out to me the most was a from a genderqueer person who answered the last time they cried was when they were …