Georgia (Little Gee) and Mistress Danielle Blunt get together to talk kinky girlfriend experience (GFE), bondage, and orgasm control and edging.
Mistress Blunt:
… this computer? Okay, hi. I am Mistress Blunt, I am a professional dominatrix, and I’ve been working for around 12 years. I come out of a lifestyle, old guard training, leather family style, and during the pandemic, transitioned to largely online work on OnlyFans. And I’m here today with Gee. Gee, would you introduce yourself?
Georgia:
Hi, my name’s Georgia. I am adult worker, sex worker, whatever you want to call it. I started my OnlyFans, been doing it for around a year and a few months now. And yeah, I’m having a lot of fun doing it.
Mistress Blunt:
And so I’ve been working in various sectors in the sex industry for like 12 years, and I’m curious, what has it been like? Because you started your OnlyFans during the pandemic. What was that like for you having that transition to doing online sex work and then coming out of quarantine, being able to meet up with other creators in person and not just in this digital space of support.
Georgia:
At the beginning when I first started, I felt a bit lonely because not a lot of people… Because you were like cast as a newbie, no one really wanted to talk to you. They didn’t want to give you the time of day. And as you’ve progressed and the longer you’re doing it, I just found it was easier to talk to people. And I have been meeting up with a lot of people in the UK because that’s where I’m from. And it’s been so fun meeting them and actually seeing them in person and being able to go to dinner rather than it just being over social media where you talk. But it’s been so much fun.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. And I imagine, too, I feel like online sex work can be really isolating, especially if you don’t have that community. And I know you’ve been someone who’s invited me into a lot of online sex work community spaces, which has been really amazing because I feel like I have so much in-person community from just living in New York as a dominatrix and doing community organizing, but it’s largely very niche. And most of the people that I know in person weren’t working online in the same capacity that the pandemic kind of necessitated for a lot of us. So it was really amazing to be able to see how open and generous people have been in those community spaces. And so I’m sure meeting up with people in person after like a year of talking online, like I’m excited to chat with you right now because-
Georgia:
I know!
Mistress Blunt:
… been chatting with you online for like a year.
Georgia:
I know!
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, so what has it been like? So were you shooting largely solo content before?
Georgia:
I was doing solo and boy-girl. Majority, solo. So, I already had someone that I was able to collab with, but I’ve recently been exploring collaborating with girls and doing girl-girl content, and that’s been so much fun. It is different making content with guys and girls because it’s like… Yeah, I feel like girls, it’s like, it’s just like making content with your best friend.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah.
Georgia:
So.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, it has very like sleepover vibes, which I’m very into. It’s very sweet and playful. I think it is like really, really fun. Yeah, that’s so fun. And you’ve been someone who I feel has taught me a lot about social media. You’re really fucking good at social media. And especially for like sex work social media, I feel like you know all of the ins and outs of what to do, and what to do if you get fucked over, and how to rebuild an account. What are some of your favorite things about social media and the most obnoxious thing about it for you?
Georgia:
I do love social media anyway because I am only 19. I have grown up with social media my whole life. And so I always, like when a new app comes out, I know how to use it anyway and stuff like that. And I love posting and reaching an audience that can relate with me. Like one thing I love using at the minute is TikTok because you can find your own little cliques on there and your videos are directed to people that are interested in similar things as you. But downside to social media is I’d probably say like people that pretend to be you and make fake accounts of you. Like I just had to deal with that today.
Mistress Blunt:
And they don’t get deleted. We’ll get deleted, but the catfish accounts stay up.
Georgia:
Yeah, like today, I’ve just had to deal with some more fake accounts and they’re scamming people. And that’s just like, why do you do that? I will never understand.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, it’s so frustrating. Do you know if there’s also… I don’t know if I should… There’s this very weird Reddit subreddit that I’m not sure if it’s still around where they would post photos of sex workers, cam girls, models and then ask other guys to role-play that model. And I’m just like, this is really kinky. You know it’s not that person.
Georgia:
I’ve never seen that before.
Mistress Blunt:
I know. Someone I was chatting with was telling me about it. And I’m like, that is really kinky.
Georgia:
I’m going to have a look at that tonight.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah.
Georgia:
I’m going to try and find it. I need to see.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, it’s so interesting. I feel like I grew up in more like the Facebook era. And when I came up starting to do sex work, there was a lot of sex worker blogs. They were really new where people were kind of talking about their experiences. And now with social media, I feel like before the pandemic, I kind of just passively had it as just like “I’m a real person” was largely what my social media was for instead of using it as a marketing tool to reach new people. But TikTok is unlike anything I’ve ever seen before with the ability to… The conversion rate is very different than other social media websites and just how good it is at getting in your brain. I wake up thinking of TikToks now and I’m like, “No.”
Georgia:
No, I like go shopping, and something will click, an idea, and I’m like, “Right, that’s a TikTok idea.”
Mistress Blunt:
You just have like a little list of all the ones you want to do.
Georgia:
Yeah, I honestly do. I have a list on my phone. I just met up with a girl yesterday to collab with and I have a list on my phone of all the TikTok ideas that I had that we could film.
Mistress Blunt:
That’s so good. I love that. Your TikToks are amazing. I have such a hard time with TikTok because I want to convey that I’m like kinky and a domme, and they just get taken down so fast, even when I’m very subtly flogging. I feel like I’ve done a bunch of the like put-a-finger-down ones and like maximum slut edition or something like that. And I see everyone’s staying up, and then my caption was just like, “Yes, but this is what I’m doing to you.” And it was like immediately got taken down. And so I have all of these fun TikTok ideas, but I know they’re just going to get taken down. So I’ve taken it to like-
Georgia:
Yeah, that’s not-
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, I’ve taken to like… And I’m like, it’s such a good platform to be funny on and show your sense of humor, but I have a dirty sense of humor, so I just-
Georgia:
And that’s just not allowed on there.
Mistress Blunt:
Not at all. You can’t even imply anything. So I’ll screenshot them and then put them on Twitter, and be like, I wish I could put this on TikTok or that they would allow this. It’s so ridiculous.
Georgia:
For some reason.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. This is me being from a different generation, but I didn’t know that TikTok was a safe-for-work platform. And I actually, my first TikTok account, which was deleted, clearly, after this story, I uploaded a porn blooper of my dog walking in onto set. And it was set to really funny music. I’ll send it to you later, but it was just… It is immediately taken down. I was like, oh, okay, cool. I should probably read the terms of service.
Georgia:
Yeah, they get you with them community guidelines.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, even if you’re just having boobs, or a butt, or just like existing in a feminine form. But yeah, it’s also very fun. I find it a fun platform to engage with.
Georgia:
I know with some social medias, that I found myself not enjoying posting on there. And then TikTok came around, and I found myself waking up and wanting to make the TikToks because they’re fun to make. And especially if you’re making them with other people, you’re having a fun experience together and that’s what I love about it.
Mistress Blunt:
And it can be so quick and casual. And then sometimes it’s like, I’ll put in all of this effort into a really complicated one and it does nothing. And then just a draft that I’m just like, “Oh, fuck, I’ll post this.” And that’s the one that does well. It’s so funny.
The first one that I made was the silhouette challenge one, which mine just kept getting deleted over and over-
Georgia:
Me too.
Mistress Blunt:
… again. It’s like you have to be hot, but not too hot.
Georgia:
Basically.
Mistress Blunt:
Leave a lot to the imagination and then find the links that you’re looking for is my whole experience of social media.
Georgia:
Yeah, I tried doing that trend multiple times and every single one was just getting removed. And I was like, “Right, that’s a sign to just stop this now.” Find something else to do.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. I’m still proud of the one that I made. It looked really good. And it was my first TikTok. And I was like, “Oh, cool, I got this transition down.”
Georgia:
Honestly, that transition I found so hard to do.
Mistress Blunt:
It was. Did you do the Bugs Bunny one?
Georgia:
Yeah.
Mistress Blunt:
I couldn’t do it. I almost like…
Georgia:
I didn’t do it well.
Mistress Blunt:
I think I kind of threw my back out trying to get my feet in the right position. I think my camera angle was wrong, and I’m just like, “I don’t know how these people with like no bones in their spine are able to get their feet up there.”
Georgia:
I have awful flexibility anyway, and so that one was a real challenge for me. I only did it the once and I didn’t do it again.
Mistress Blunt:
So funny. With this transition to starting to do, making online content over the last year, what have you found to be the most enjoyable part of it and maybe like a challenge that you’ve been figuring out with it?
Georgia:
I love that the content I make can be done from my house. I love doing amateur content. I’m not so into the whole professional thing. I think it’s a lot more personal. And you can have a real deep connection with the fans that are subscribed to you. And the content, it’s up to you what you want to make. So whatever you’re feeling on the day or if you’ve got this great idea, you can do it because you’re in control of it all, and yeah.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. That makes sense. I’ve done a lot of… I worked as the videographer for a porn site for like five years, so I have some background in that as well as done a few bigger shoots for Kink.com, which were really fun, and it was a friend of a friend who was producing it, and they were like, “What do you want to shoot?” And so it was very much based on my needs and desires, but there’s something… After spending like five years on set as a videographer, I’m like, the hottest moments of this porn are when the male talent’s trying to get it up and they just stop the scene and are just like fucking how they would normally fuck if it wasn’t for porn. And I’m like, “Fuck, get that on camera. That shit’s really hot.” Like when they’re both really into it.
Georgia:
Yeah.
Mistress Blunt:
And I’m just like, I think that’s something that’s so special about OnlyFans and being more in control of the type of content that you make is that you shoot when you want to shoot, and when you’re turned on. When you’re making the type of content that you really like is something that I’ve been having fun with OnlyFans. I think a lot about social media as manifestation. And I’m just like, if I post about the things that I like, then more people who are into the things that I’m into will find me and find-
Georgia:
Yeah, definitely.
Mistress Blunt:
… ways of connecting with me. And so I find that really, really fun and it’s been… I’ve always kind of made clips, but never… OnlyFans, I feel like, offers this really unique space to have intimate one-on-one connections and conversations with people that I think the porn industry in general has kind of been lacking. It offers something that’s fairly, I guess, not necessarily new, but very streamlined of a way to do it. And to be able to have a conversation about your life with the person that you’re also jerking off to, I feel like, changes the relationship that people have to pornography and the type of content that they’re seeing. Having more of like an amateur vibe or just like we’re just setting up a camera in our bedroom and you get to see.
My partner doesn’t want to be on camera. So I did an audio recording of us fucking, and this was deeply intimate and very dirty talk. And I was like I wouldn’t have made that before or thought to share that. And it was really well-received, so that was really fun.
Georgia:
Yeah, I know a lot of fans that I have, they love audio porn. I like it myself, too. And yeah, I feel like, especially… I find that when you talk to fans and stuff, you can find other kinks and stuff that you’ll then explore and you can then make a video on it. And I just feel like you learn a lot more and you’ll find things that you’re into that you wouldn’t think that you’re into.
Mistress Blunt:
What’s one thing that you didn’t think you were into that maybe you’re now into?
Georgia:
I love rough sex and I didn’t think I would because I’ve… Before sort of doing OnlyFans and stuff, I didn’t really talk about sex or anything like that. And so that’s why it sort of came as a surprise to everyone. And I’ve just been able to explore myself. Yeah, rough sex is one of them. And stuff like consensual, non-consensual, that’s something that I didn’t think I’d ever be into that, but apparently, I am.
Mistress Blunt:
Was this through making customs and stuff like that or just kind of experimenting on your own and recording different stuff?
Georgia:
Yeah, it was just experimenting for myself. I had a couple people mention their own kinks to me, and then I researched it myself because I was interested and just decided to try it out, and yeah.
Mistress Blunt:
It worked for you.
Georgia:
Felt a spark.
Mistress Blunt:
I feel that way about foot fetishes. I’ve been working as a pro domme for a very long time and had been really into foot worship. And I was like, “Wow, I did not know that I could come from foot worship before I started doing this.”
Georgia:
Cool.
Mistress Blunt:
And now I know this about myself. It’s like my special skill. And I was like, wow. I didn’t not like feet and I could understand foot fetish, but it was like through talking to foot fetishists and seeing how they revere feet in this very special way that I was like, “I totally get it in this other way.” But it sounds like you’ve also, while making your online sex work profile, are also simultaneously exploring kink. I feel like that’s a really like fun perspective to explore kink from, kind of like the girlfriend experience or like GFE of like you’re exploring it together with your fans, I think is a really nice offering as well to kind of offer that vulnerability of like, “I don’t know if I like this. Let me research this.”
Georgia:
Yeah, I mean, I love the work that you do because I didn’t know a dominatrix until I met you. And I learned a lot just seeing the content you put out. I imagine that you’re very close with your fans just because of the style of work that you do. Yeah, I think your work is so cool.
Mistress Blunt:
Thanks.
Georgia:
It’s just funny how we’re very different with the content that we make. I mean, it’s just like it’s so weird how we talk to each other and you meet people in the industry that you wouldn’t think that you would know and talk to.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, I think that’s what’s… And I just find people are so open to sharing and collaborating and just sharing information and helping each other is so nice. I’ve been having a lot of fun chatting with people who… Most of my community in New York is largely kinky folks and like doms. I have a really strong dom community. So it’s been really fun talking to folks who make other kind of content. And yeah, I do have really close dynamics and work on submissive training, and tasks, and jerk off instructions with my subs on my site. And it’s really nice to build that kind of dynamic and experience. It encourages me to make content that teases into delays and tortures and then brings them all the way to the edge. I don’t know, it’s really…
It’s interesting being able to have these conversations with people who make different kind of content, and then also with you who’s starting to make kinkier content. You were talking a little bit about exploring bondage and consensual non-consent. And I’m wondering, what has that been like for you?
Georgia:
It’s been really enjoyable. It’s just it’s a little bit… So I’ve not filmed the consensual non-consensual because I find it difficult to because of the guy I film with. He’s not in it fully and he doesn’t really talk in the videos. It’s pretty much like POV and that’s it. But I have been doing a lot more like bondage style. I’ve been doing that with girls, too. I just find it really fun just exploring that side.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. I think “everyone is kind of kinky” is my grand philosophy. Vanilla sex, I also think can be very kinky. Like you want to look me in the eye and come inside of me and procreate? That is perverse. That is. Or like more of the tantric sex style that I feel kind of falls more under the vanilla side of things. I think it’s only like… I guess I really only consider it to be very vanilla if it’s like you’re not asking for your needs or you aren’t aware or in touch with what you want. And if you are, if you’re like asking for it, there seems to me, to be like an element of like kink or a kink-like communication in that space.
But bondage is a super fun one because I feel like just the confinement of bondage allows people to relax in a way. Or people who are into bondage, the confinement allows them to relax in this way where they can be more open and receptive to sexual experiences in a way that they might be overthinking. There’s something about confinement and you think about it like with thunder jackets or weighted blankets that sort of shut off that part of your brain where you’re overthinking and hyper-analyzing and kind of just relax into it if you’re not having like a panic response to bondage. It can go one way or the other, for sure.
Georgia:
Yeah, I am also into choking and stuff like that and that makes me really calm. It’s such a weird feeling to explain, but it’s just like it heightens all your emotions, I feel like, and you can feel very sensitive and it just makes everything feel 10 times better. And it’s so weird to explain it to someone because it’s like until… I don’t know if I’m the only one that feels that way, but it’s like unless you do it, I don’t think you’ll understand the feeling of that.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, and also, it’s just like a great anchor point to hold on and get some motion going. But yeah, it’s very securing, I think, for people, and very intimate and also-
Georgia:
I end up feeling a lot more safer, which is kind of a weird thing.
Mistress Blunt:
Safety through choking. I like this.
Georgia:
Probably not safe at all, but you know.
Mistress Blunt:
It depends how you do it, but I think-
Georgia:
Yeah, if you do it the right way, it’s safe.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. And I think that it’s… There’s something that’s like… You’re slightly restricting your breath flow, which I also teach yoga and have my yoga teacher training, and I found a lot of similarities between my yoga practice and my kink practice, and one of them is breathwork and how you play with breath. And in yoga, you can use your breath to find altered states of consciousness and really go into like a deep meditation or into a deep trance state if you are practicing pranayama or breathwork in a serious way. And I find it to be really true with bondage that also restricts the chest, or a harness that goes along this space that can kind of restrict it, or even like a corset restricts your breath in a way that people find really comforting, or a hand on the throat as your breathwork practice. Take three deep breaths and then no more. That’s it for you.
One of my favorite lines to say when I’m fucking is like, “You don’t need to breathe.” Breathing is a privilege.
Georgia:
Yeah, but I love that. You know what? I want to be told that.
Mistress Blunt:
Mm, maybe I need to come to the UK. Yeah, breathing is a privilege to be earned.
Georgia:
That’s amazing.
Mistress Blunt:
It’s so fun that you’re getting to explore these parts of yourself through creating that content and sharing that vulnerability and intimacy with your fans and subscribers.
Georgia:
Yeah, it is. I love this job and I wouldn’t change it for anything. I think no matter what job you do, you need to be able to love it. Otherwise, you’re going to be miserable. And the main thing in life is to be happy, so.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, totally. What part of this job makes you the happiest?
Georgia:
Sorry, I couldn’t hear you for a minute.
Mistress Blunt:
What part of this job makes you the happiest? You mentioned working from home.
Georgia:
Yeah, probably just the freedom of you’re working for yourself. You’re not working for some large company. And if you’re not feeling up to it that day, that’s fine. You can have the day off. It doesn’t matter. Or you can also make content wherever in the world. So it’s like, if you go on holiday somewhere, you’re still able to make content and it’s like, it’s just, I think, the best of both worlds.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. I say I totally agree with that. And then also, where do you make the boundaries between when you’re on holiday and when you’re not? I have this problem wherever I stay in a nice hotel, I’m like, “Oh, I need to make content now.” And I need to be like… One, you need to relax now and self-doubt myself into not making content. I was joking with a friend the other day that I was like, “If you wanted to top me and do a torture scene to me, it would look like you taking me to a beautiful boutique hotel, and tying me up, and telling me that I’m not allowed to make content would be my torture scene.” But I guess there is the ability to work in any environment or wherever you are, but how do you for yourself make sure that you’re not working all the time?
Georgia:
I like to give myself a couple days off in the week. It’s normally the weekend just because the majority of people have the weekends off. They’re working 9:00 to 5:00, Monday to Friday. And so I tend to have the weekends off. Or even sometimes if it’s a Saturday, I’ll be like, I’m happy to continue working, it’s not an issue, but it is dependent on how I feel on the day. If I’m not feeling up to it, then I just won’t do anything, or I’ll just do as little work as possible.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. That makes sense. And me too, I’ve gotten better. Especially in the beginning of the pandemic when I was like transitioning to online work, I was like, “Oh, there are no boundaries. I’m always in my house. My house is my place of work. I will have no boundaries around work.” The burnout was very real. I had to like-
Georgia:
Yeah. I think everyone’s gone through the burnout.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. I was just like, “This is not sustainable anymore and I want to continue enjoying what I do.”
Georgia:
Mm-hmm. It took me a while to sort of understand that because when I first started, I’d work all day every day. And it wasn’t until I had my burnout that I learned that I need to have a few days off for myself and look after myself because it’s not right for anyone to work all day every day. You have to give yourself some time off.
Mistress Blunt:
Definitely. Yeah, and I feel that I make better content when I’ve had time off and better interactions with fans. Okay, I’m going to ask you one or two more questions. And feel free to ask me any questions if you have any kink questions that you’re curious about. But I’m curious, what’s your favorite scene that you shot, where you think you shine the best, where you’re like, “Fuck, I did a good job, that’s fucking hot”?
Georgia:
There’s kind of a few videos.
Mistress Blunt:
Good, I like this.
Georgia:
Probably my first ever girl-girl video. I just really liked… When I was looking back at it, I really liked the lighting and everything in the room because that’s also a big part of making good videos. But when I was watching it back, I was just like, “That’s a really good video.” And I was just like, I’m happy to send that out because I know people are gonna enjoy it.
Another one is probably I use my fuck machine, but I’ve been getting into using multiple cameras. And so for that one, I think I used like two or three cameras and I enjoyed a lot editing it all together and seeing the final product and being like, “That’s an amazing video.” I’m so proud of myself for making that and editing it and everything like that.
Mistress Blunt:
That’s awesome. And it’s fun to be able to explore that and different angles. Good lighting makes such a difference in videos. It really does. One of my favorite is I fucked… This was before the pandemic, but I fucked Owen Gray, and it was just very… He normally tops people in his videos, he’s a porn performer, and he normally is like fucking the shit out of women. And it’s also very hot. But when we did it, it was more like me sexually dominating him in very subtle ways, which was very much like the type of sex that I have in my personal life where it’s like I’m not always dressed up in leather or latex. I’m not always having these intense rituals or scenes that involve a ton of toys. For me, it’s largely about the mental space that I can bring someone in and exploring levels of intensity with or without toys. And so that one was really fun.
As well as any chance I get to use someone as a human dildo is my favorite. A personal favorite of mine. And actually, one of my first collaborations after quarantine, we actually were still getting COVID tested at the time and had been just gotten vaccinated, was with a friend from some of the group chats and things like that that I’d been talking to. And I got to dominate her. And just the lighting was so beautiful and sexy and it’s just like really… I was really proud of it. And also, just like really proud. I’m like, “This was shot on a fucking iPhone. This looks really good. You shoot 4K video? Good job, iPhone.”
Georgia:
I know. Some of the boy-girl videos I’ve done, during, I’m like, “This is going to be such a good video.” At the end, I’m just so happy to be able to sell it to people and for them to be able to see it, like all the… I mean, I was going to say hard work, but it’s not… It is a little bit hard work, but it’s not like, you know. Yeah, it’s very enjoyable.
I was going to ask you what… Because you’ve been doing this for so long, did you explore any kinks or was it pretty much you knew what you were into and you went into it and you just stuck to it?
Mistress Blunt:
It’s so funny. When I was 18, I was fucking this guy. And apparently, he talked a lot about the way that we were fucking. Big mouth. And my friend was going to a human sexuality class and they had a section on BDSM. And these people from the house that I later trained at came and gave a lecture on what BDSM was and brought their lifestyle-submissives in. And he was just like, “I know too much about your sex life, and I’m sorry if this makes you feel weird, but you need to know about this place.” It had its problematic spaces, being led by an older cis white man who… I always say I learned a lot about power dynamics through how power dynamics were misused, too, but it still offered a lot to me.
And so every other weekend when I was in university, I would go to this BDSM sex chateau two hours from school. And so I would one weekend go to a frat party, and then one weekend I would be having a five-course meal with wine pairings, and go downstairs into the dungeon and torture someone in my thigh-high leather boots that I borrowed from the house. And I was like, “Wow, I contain multitudes.”
Georgia:
That was a few years ago, I saw this Netflix show and it was so similar to that where the girl was at college or university and her side job was being dominatrix. And I cannot for the life of me remember what it was called-
Mistress Blunt:
Bonding.
Georgia:
… but I love that TV… What was it?
Mistress Blunt:
Bonding?
Georgia:
It might’ve been. Yeah, it probably was. I actually love that TV show. It was amazing.
Mistress Blunt:
So fun. I think if it’s that one, they just had a second series, and a friend of mine did some of their kink consulting for the second season, which is a lot more accurate to what it might be like to be a dom. But yeah, it was… I didn’t have the language for it when I was younger. I was doing a lot of… In my earlier days, my favorite way of getting off was I would enter, this is going to age me, but I would enter an AOL chat room and I would start having cybersex with people. And then as soon as my partner was like, “I’m about to come,” I’d be like, “Just kidding. I’m an old man in my mom’s basement.” And then I would close the… I almost did it right now, I was like, close the computer, and then I would masturbate ferociously. And that is my earliest kink memory.
And in retrospect, I was like, oh, I was into like tease, and denial, and humiliation, and maybe force, but I don’t know what was going on for me there, but it made me feel powerful, and that power made me feel very turned on.
Georgia:
That is so funny.
Mistress Blunt:
So I was doing weird shit, but I didn’t really know. I had a ballet bar above my bed with handcuffs on it, but I would tie up my friends, but didn’t have language. I hadn’t found like hardcore BDSM porn. But I think it goes back to what we were talking about, about amateur content and less high production value. It’s like it was never the toys or the outfits that were interesting to me; it was the power dynamic. And I would find a porn video where I’m like, “Oh, she looks like she’s in charge and getting what she wants, and I think that’s really hot.” And I would watch that video instead of going to find a video of a dominatrix per se.
Georgia:
I can’t get over that story.
Mistress Blunt:
I feel like it sums me up very well. It’s the mindfuck. The humiliation.
Georgia:
I feel like, especially with this job, you just become a lot more educated. And so like now, you’ve had so many years of experience. I’m sure you know everything.
Mistress Blunt:
I can always learn. I still love to take classes and stuff like that and see what folks are doing. And I also feel like I have learned so much from sex workers who aren’t making kink content, especially in those online spaces where people are sharing skill sets. So it’s been really fun for me to connect with you and to connect with other folks in the group chats and just see what other people are doing and what’s working for other people has been…
I think OnlyFans has allowed me to have more intimate connections online, which has been really, really nice. I’ve been doing submissive training online. And I think that’s what I found most fulfilling about the online work is people who want to work with me to explore kinks and figure out what they’re into and how they can explore service, and devotion, and worship. And that’s always been things that previously I had pursued in person, but it’s nice to reach a larger swath of people who are into the same shit that I am.
Georgia:
Yeah, and also, it’s people all over the world and it’s people that you wouldn’t have met before. You probably would’ve only met people in New York, like where you’re from.
Mistress Blunt:
Right. Yeah, exactly.
Georgia:
And so now, it’s like you got people all over America, and the UK, and all these other countries and stuff that you’re able to connect to and to teach them as well.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. It’s really lovely. I’m still looking forward to when our group chat gets together for a retreat. I think it will be so fun.
Georgia:
I actually love that group chat. It’s just like… Ooh. Sorry. I’m on my phone and a notification came up. I love the group chat because it’s like, as I was saying before, at the beginning when I started, you just felt real lonely, and you were like, “There’s no one I can talk to.” And now in the group chat, it’s like you put a message in there and there’s 20 other girls that are feeling the exact same way as you and that you just feel like you’re not alone and that other people can relate to you. And also, if something’s doing really well for you, you can share that information with people. It’s not a competitive industry at all.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, I think that’s what I’ve found sweetest about that group chat is that there’s really no ounce of competition.
Georgia:
No, no.
Mistress Blunt:
People are like, “Fuck yeah, congratulations. I need to do that.”
Georgia:
Yeah. Like, “You go, girl.”
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah! It’s so supportive, and that’s always so, so nice. And because I feel like we all have different things that we’re offering and different qualities and characteristics that people are coming to us for. So it’s not like an oversaturated market. I just don’t feel like it really can be. Everyone’s so different and offering something so different.
Georgia:
No, it’s a nice community that we’ve got because if you go to work and you’re working in retail, you go to work and you have your work colleagues that you talk to. And with this industry, you don’t… Especially if you’re doing online sex work, you don’t have that opportunity. And so you have to reach out yourself to find people to talk to, which I find really, really great about this job.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. It definitely kept me sane during the pandemic, being able to have that space, for sure. And also just connecting with other kinky people online on my OnlyFans and going through it together, I feel like bonded people in a way that… Nothing like global trauma to bond people together.
Georgia:
Yeah, trauma has a way of bringing people together.
Mistress Blunt:
True. Those are parting words. Well, okay, so what are you excited about making in the future, or doing with your business, or growing with it, or type of content, are you excited that you haven’t done yet?
Georgia:
See, I currently don’t live alone. I still live with parents. And so I am moving out soon.
Mistress Blunt:
Cool.
Georgia:
And so I’m really excited to be able to make content whenever I want and to explore different kinds of content that I can make and just basically be able to do whatever I want. I just like having the freedom of doing whatever I want.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. And I feel like this job can really offer that. Well, that’s exciting that you’re going to get your own space. I’m sure it will have good lighting. That’s what I look for in a place.
Georgia:
I’ve been looking at places, and I’m like, “The lighting’s not good there. I can’t move there.”
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. I need like magic hour, west-facing light, so I can get some golden hour glow on my titties.
Georgia:
What are you excited about in the future with this job?
Mistress Blunt:
I’m excited to continue making kinky content in a way that I hadn’t been doing before. And definitely collaborating with some folks from the group chat. I think it’s been really fun making submissive tasks and doing training and sort of doing more content like that. And I just shot three more scenes for Kink.com when I was out west in California two weeks ago. I’m very excited by that. And so I’m excited to find ways to shoot fuller scenes with kinky folks that I would like to play with in my personal life who are cool with it being filmed. Because I feel like that always makes the most fun content of just like, oh, you get to see what I do in my personal life.
And making more audio porn clips. I’m a very dirty talker and just can… I don’t know where it comes from. Maybe it’s like a trance state I go into of dirty talk where it’s just like nonstop spewing from my mouth because I get off on my partner’s reaction. So I think remembering to capture more of that will be really fun.
Georgia:
You know what? I want to get into that, too, because I actually enjoy it myself. So it’ll be nice to share that with fans and be able to relate to them and be able to talk about it.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah, and it’s so hot, too. I feel like dirty talk is such a good way of communicating what you want and need and a way of communicating during sex that should be done more.
Georgia:
Yeah. Communication is so important when it comes to sex. And a lot of people don’t understand that. I saw a TikTok the other day where this girl was like, “Oh, the majority of guys can’t find the clit.” And I did a TikTok talking about it. And I was like, “The longer you go without telling them, the worse off it’s going to be for you. So it’s like sex is meant to be this really enjoyable thing, so why don’t you make it enjoyable for yourself?”
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. It’s very true. I don’t know why I’m thinking of it now, but I think we were talking about vanilla sex. I feel like so much of heteronormative sex is really kinky. People consider choking or spanking to be part of their vanilla dynamics or just like just based on the man’s pleasure or face-fucking is kind of in a vanilla category.
Georgia:
It’s kind of kink.
Mistress Blunt:
It is, and it should be negotiated. And I feel like when those things are taken as… When anything sexual is taken as a given rather than to be discussed and negotiated based on what your individual desires are, there’s so much space for shit to go wrong, or to not get your needs met at all, or to think you’re doing something wrong.
Georgia:
Yeah, I know stuff like… I did this video and it was a put-a-finger-down one, and it was a freaky edition. And a lot of it was like, do you like choking, stuff like that. And all the comments were filled like, “This isn’t freaky at all. This is vanilla,” blah, blah, blah. And I was like, it’s not though. It’s just become sort of mainstream to be into that.
Mistress Blunt:
Great.
Georgia:
And there are so many people out there that aren’t into that type of stuff. And they are kinks, whether you want to admit it or not.
Mistress Blunt:
That was the one that I had taken down. It was like put a finger down if you’ve ever been slapped in the face. And it was like, if I’ve slapped you in the face. And everyone else’s were allowed to stay up. And mine was doing very well, but because it was like the power dynamic was reversed, I think was why it was taken down. I’ve had a lot taken down for those reasons and for just straight up posting porn to the platform by accident.
Georgia:
You ruined yourself from day one, basically.
Mistress Blunt:
I truly did. That’s like my MO, I guess. I’ll let you know who I really am.
Okay, well, it’s been so amazing chatting with you. Is there anything else you want to add or let folks know where they could find you?
Georgia:
You can find me on Instagram. It’s just @xxlittlegeexx1. That’s my main account at the minute because my other one got shadow banned.
Mistress Blunt:
Ugh. So frustrating.
Georgia:
That’s another downside to this work. You get shadow banned everywhere.
Mistress Blunt:
Yeah. It’s like, “Oh, you’re too hot. We’re repressing your content.”
Georgia:
Yeah, if you go on Instagram, you can then find links to my other platforms, so.
Mistress Blunt:
Awesome.
Georgia:
It’s been lovely talking to you and that we’re actually seeing you face-to-face.
Mistress Blunt:
I know. It’s so nice chatting with people. And I’m @mistressblunt cross-platform and on OnlyFans or mistressblunt.com. But yeah, it’s been so great chatting with you. I’m going to pause this.
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