Join me in getting to know the lovely Goddess Gabrielle as we delve into the origins of her latex fetish, creativity in BDSM, Religious Play and so much more!
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Hello everyone, I’m joined today by Goddess Gabrielle to talk about latex and perversion. I’m so excited to chat with you. I’ve been perving your content and there’s so much latex and beautiful, consistently put out content that I’m super excited to chat with you. And one of the first questions that I like to ask people is a little bit about how they found their way into kink, whether it be personal or professional. You seem so excited about so many different things in kink with the content that you’re putting out there. I’m sort of wondering how you wound up where you are.
Goddess Gabrielle
Thank you so much for having me on! be I feel like I have a lot to say and I feel like I have a lot of experience yet I’m still learning. I feel like I’m learning every day even beyond sex work. Like, I feel like I’m learning more about myself even. My kinks and perversions have expanded so much over the years. Basically, how I got started… it’s a little taboo. My sister, Mistress Moxie and I have a nine year age gap. She’s nine years older than me. And I did not know that I had a sister until I was 13 years old. I met her when I was 18. And one of the first things that we discussed actually was sexuality, like asking each other, “are you bi?” Which turned into her kind of telling me about her own kink journey. And with that, I was like, OK, that’s pretty interesting. I have always been pretty sexually charged from… I would say probably as an adolescent honestly. And that kind of segued into me finding out that…Okay, I think I might be into this stuff. I started out subbing, I met this guy on Fetlife actually, and we had gone to this drag show in Louisville, Kentucky. Afterwards, we played in his mini dungeon and it was my first time ever in a spreader bar. It was one of the most intense moments of my life, and although I had a good time, I knew that being submissive wasn’t for me.
I was very envious that he got to do these things to me and I couldn’t do it to him. And so that’s kind of what started it. And then I started doing sex work on the side, here and there. I wouldn’t even consider myself a sex worker at that point. I probably just did sex work, like selling panties from like craigslist and stuff. Anyway, I’m rambling. That’s how I got started.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I feel like there’s so much there, that’s so interesting and so different than most of the stories that I hear when I ask people about how they found their way into kink. It’s very interesting and I feel like such a unique thing to share with a sibling and, I don’t know, I feel like… Is an interest in kink genetic? Is it socialized? It’s like, contagious hearing you talk about getting more and more perverted, like the more and more that of that experience you have, I feel like all these kind of… taboo things to talk about, there’s no way to detangle what comes from what, but it’s definitely interesting to think about. So thank you for sharing that, that’s super interesting. I wouldn’t say that I started as a sub, but I did have that old guard like, classical training where it was very much earning your leathers and like, subbing. I would first start subbing or I would first start domming when I earned a pair of leather boots and I’d wear like nothing but a pair of leather boots to domme in.
I always knew that I wanted to domme but I was such a glutton for experience and I’m like, okay, cool. I’ll learn it in my body. It’s fine. You know, I was just eager for any experience. I also just love what you said about your first experience subbing. You wish that it was you domming you because I feel like for me… domming myself, like I’m the domme that I want to submit to. And the fact that I can’t make that a reality for myself… (Both laugh)
In that specific way has always bothered me. At what point did you make a move towards like, your incarnation as Goddess Gabrielle and being online? I feel like latex is part of your branding and like… I guess both: how would you describe your style of domination and how did you kind of move to where you are in your career?
Goddess Gabrielle
I think when I first started, I was definitely more like, identifying with being more of a mommy domme. I used to do these little story time videos and OG subs will remember this… I used to sit in my little Star Wars nook and read these bedtime stories. And it was usually femdom oriented, like a historical fiction or erotica. I was very passionate about lifestyle domination. Like I, and I still have that incorporated even with my professional persona. But I think I evolved more, especially now into, I would say primarily a sensual sadist.
Traditional BDSM will always be a part of me and it means a lot to be able to, for example, I just finished a collab with Mistress Jane who switches and you know, she’s so creative and so open to anything that pops into my head and having these specific fantasies come to life, I had her in my hanging leather cage. I had her suspended from the ceiling and I literally had punching gloves and was punching her, like a form of corporal punishment, a form of impact play. Going from Mommy domme to more sensual sadist I feel like it’s once again, like a progression of perversions. Those things turn me on. I like creative scenes and yeah, anyway, I’m rambling!
Mistress Danielle Blunt
No, you’re not rambling at all! If you’re rambling, I’m here with you. I love the term progression of perversion, it’s so fun. I feel like I found… I definitely identify as a mommy domme and found it kind of like… So I’ve been in the lifestyle and pro domming for around like 15 or 16 years. I found it quite young as well.
I found the house that I trained at when I was 18, and by the time I was 19, I was fully embedded in like, this underground lifestyle and just as eager as I could be for more information. And I feel like… you know, when you are lifestyle and when you are in the industry for longer, you’ll find things that you really like, and then maybe you lose a little bit of enchantment with a specific thing if you do a little bit too much of it. I think what’s so interesting and fun specifically about content creation too, and like the persona and the archetype you create online is the ability to shift within it. And that there’s no fixed identity within your career as the domme. There’s lots of space for evolution and for growth. I loved what you were saying about that and the perverted story time is something that I also do. I feel like there’s something so special about mommy energy.
I read a sub a bedtime story once, it was that they just didn’t have that experience as a kid. And it was being able to repattern some of their earlier experiences to like, getting to have a mommy who read to them… It can really add this like, very nurturing or very erotic element to the mommy dynamic. I think…I don’t know, the sensual domination from Mommy domme makes a lot of sense, because BDSM can be so vast and varied. You can be a fetishist, you can be into this specific kink, and I don’t know…To me, like… I identify as a pervert when people ask about what I’m into. I’m like, I’m a pervert. It doesn’t matter to me, right?
Goddess Gabrielle
Exactly ,yes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I play well with others because I’m interested in that creativity of like, what are you bringing to the scene and what can we co-create together, which sounds really similar and like, why it’s so exciting to play with someone like Mistress Jane, who’s like just down to clown, down to fuck around…
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, she’s a legend. It was an intense scene. She killed it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
How do you relate to creativity in the content that you’re making or the scenes that you’re doing? For me, I love when someone either has a very specific idea but is not attached to the outcome. They’re not giving me a script or something like that. But I love having very… niche fetishes. I’m thinking of a submissive that I saw in person who wanted to be submerged in an an ice bath and held. And I’m just like, you know, that’s not my specific kink, but it was such an erotic experience for me. And getting off on also their interest in it… being able to push their interest in it felt like this very like collaborative. So I’m like, you bring me the raw materials and I will create the Sistine Chapel for you… and I’m curious how you think of creativity within the context of a scene.
Goddess Gabrielle
I’m so down to try so many things but whenever I’m in the scene domming I think back to how I felt as a submissive and then I feel like, depending on what kind of scene it is, I’m very verbally charged… like I’m spitting out shit all the time and I’m almost like, narrating how they should be or probably are experiencing the scene and building off of that. Really pushing it… and based on if they’re being super reactive in a good way, like, okay, I’m in the right spot with that. But I don’t know, it’s like, you never know what or exactly how a scene is going to go sometimes. Most of the time, I think you have to be collaborative to make magic. I feel like you can’t really script out anything. I also think being open to other people’s creativity is where the magic happens. I don’t know if that answered the question.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
It does, and it also makes me think of another question on the intuitive nature of domming. I feel like some of what you’re talking about is creativity and some of what you’re talking about is being able to fall into that flow state where you know what’s happening for your submissive in a way that they’re just beginning to integrate. And I’m curious, both as someone who’s collaborating with other people or seeing subs potentially in person, how you utilize your intuition and then how you translate that. So the two separate questions like in person and then how you translate that intuition to like bring someone somewhere in a clip because I am more new to content creation at the start of the pandemic. I took like a veer into more heavy content creation and as someone who loves that collaborative nature of in-person sessions or video calls and Skype calls of being able to feed off of each other’s energy. It’s something that I’ve sometimes found difficult to translate and I’ve always had the most success with customs, with specific things. If I’m making something with someone in mind, if I have two submissives I’ve trained as human tripods and so I can just spew. Like go into my flow state of like, one of them was like, my God, the things you say are so amazing. I’m like, I have no memory of what I say when I am in like an erotic, like dirty talk head space. Like I cannot be held responsible for the shit that comes out of my mouth in those moments. But I guess, yeah, I’m curious, like how you use your intuition when you’re like working with someone’s body and then how you might translate that for content.
Goddess Gabrielle
That’s a really good question. Kind of whenever I’m filming like a, let’s say like a general population video, like if I’m gonna put it on like a clip site, whatever the theme, let’s say humiliation, which is just like super basic like humiliation,
I’ll be like, I bet you’re so embarrassed that like you’re leaking to this, but like, your self self acceptance brought you here and now you’re indulging like that’s a good thing. Like, con descending mommy domme, like, like, yeah, yeah, that’s, that’s my thing. And just once again, like just reflecting on, you know, how am I supposed to be making them feel? And what are they probably feeling? And if those two, I think, are aligning, then I think it’s good. And I just keep going off of that. I hope I answered that question
Mistress Danielle Blunt
it sounds like that like, I don’t know, maybe you can speak a little bit more to that. Is it like, are you thinking about like, as a mommy domme, are you thinking of like your self in previous submissive experiences? Are you thinking of a submissive? Like how do you feel like you know?
I guess my question is how do you know what to say when there’s not a submissive there in front of you? Because I feel like we talked a little bit about the collaborative and then what is happening when you’re alone in the studio creating content to, I think of the content that I make as a giant web to bring people into my lair. And so I create content with kind of.
that as the fulcrum and then like whatever activity it is, it has that intention. And I’m curious like for you, how do you keep that like creative spark or that intuition in the content that you’re making?
Goddess Gabrielle
I think Creative Spark, I will think about what would turn me on. you know, what turns me on, what would turn them on? You know, the other day we were, me and Mistress Jane were talking about crypto for some reason. And then I was like, Hmm, I should make a GG coin video where I gaslight them and tell them that all the money in their bank account is now GG coin. Like, kind of those, you know, for like creative spark, but in terms of being performative to the camera as if it were the submissive to get the same reaction of it as if they were right in front of me. Like I treat my camera like the sub. I do a lot of POV and props help too. A lot of POV style videos, pretty much all of them I’ve filmed, you know, through my dog cage, like putting the phone in the dog cage and treating my phone like it was a real person. I think that’s what’s helped me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
You’ve talked a little bit about like how coming into kink, you had some submissive experiences, you sort of realized it wasn’t for you. And I feel like that’s something that we also have in common is that I identify more so as a sadomasochist than as a switch. But like, I definitely have switchy experiences. And I do think it makes me a better domme. And I …right? Like because I’m never going to do something to you that probably hasn’t been done to myself and that I know what it feels like in my body. I do think that felt experience makes someone a better domme or a different way of understanding, a different way of tapping into someone’s nervous system and understanding. And I’m curious how you think switching or a history of switching has informed your style of domination.
Goddess Gabrielle
I think that it’s made me respect the sub position equally if not more than someone that’s in the dom position. The amount, depending on what you’re doing, the amount of stress on the body the psychological, mental, emotional toll BDSM can have on someone in a healing way… in a, you know, boundary pushing way… It takes a lot of strength to feel confident enough to explore your sexuality. To explore, you know, taboo sex, and I think with keyboard warriors, like on Twitter, I think you can tell when someone hasn’t subbed, honestly. I think you can tell.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Someone I’m thinking of is an incredibly heavy sadist who rarely bottoms, but also identifies as sadomasochist and bottoms harder than anyone I know. I talk about this because it was like so crucial for me in the formation of my desire. I think it might’ve been Daisy Ducati who said she was holding a cattle prod and the submissive was really scared of it. And she just shocks her tongue and she’s like Elle from ‘Legally Blonde’, “what like it’s hard?” and just electrocutes herself. I think there’s something about knowing that you could take whatever you’re doling out that makes it sort of transformative for both of you. At least this is like the experience that I’ve had and of course like not everyone’s into everything and not everyone needs to needs to try everything but I do think I don’t know I think it’s like really, really helpful. I know that like I’ve also hired sex workers before and that’s definitely made me a better domme because I was fucking horrified. I was like so nervous. I likecame into the session and she’s like, where’s my gift? And I’m like, what? I didn’t get you a fucking gift. And she’s like, tribute. I’m like, okay. Like I forgot to like hand her the cash immediately. And I was just, I was like shaking in my boots and I was so, I was so nervous that I would do something wrong. And I feel like that experience gave me so much more empathy for how scary it is. I found who I wanted to see. It took me like seven months to like send an inquiry and I was just really nervous.
Goddess Gabrielle
That’s sweet. It’s really cute.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Yeah, I was like really nervous and I feel like I just have so much more compassion for subs. I was talking with a sub yesterday, I think, who was like, coming to terms with the fact that I respect him as a submissive and that there’s not an inherent disrespect there. I’m like, no, like the disrespect I have for you is erotic. It is within the context of play. Of course there’s definitely other types of play, of people who I don’t have as close relationships with that I might not respect as much, but I think to approach the divine, to approach a goddess, to surrender yourself in that way, takes a lot of strength. And it’s only fun for me if I can take that strength away from you. I am very uninterested when you don’t have that strength to begin with.
Yeah, so I guess it’s something that I think about quite a bit, like of the background of being able to know what you’re putting into someone’s body. And I think you mentioned it when you were talking about your clips and thinking about what turns you on.
Goddess Gabrielle
Definitely.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I’m curious how you got into latex because when I think of goddess Gabrielle, I do think of latex and I feel like there are… Yeah, beautiful. When did you get your first piece of latex and like when did you know? And what did it do for you?
Goddess Gabrielle
Let me show you my closet. I vividly remember it because I got the suit. I was living in Louisville at the time. I was living in the city, which never again, I’ll never live in a city. But I loved New York when I visited. So I got my first suit. I immediately go over to my sister’s house and I’m like, help me put this on and I get into it. I get into it and I’m just like, I felt, I have like a thousand selfies from that day.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Was it a full catsuit? Your first piece was a full catsuit… Fetishist all the way, yeah.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, I remember like dancing in the living room and she’s taking these cute videos. It was very wholesome. Like it wasn’t erotic in any sort. It was wholesome and I was like, wow, I like the way I look. I like the way I feel. For me, latex is comfort, second skin. I feel the most confident ever in it. It just makes me feel powerful and makes me feel sexy and it makes me feel like I can do anything. That’s how latex makes me feel.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I love that. I feel like it looks very like superhero. So I love hearing when it makes people feel that way. I have been very opposed to latex. So the fact that I’m wearing some now is remarkable. I feel like I made a clip called mommy’s late latex fetish because I like came to it so late in my kink experience. I’m not sure. I think maybe because I like came up in like old guard leather where it was like leather, like the power of like wearing this like animal that’s been like passed down through like your leather lineage always felt so interesting to me. And also I don’t, I wouldn’t say that I find latex comfortable. I find the like containment to be like an interesting sensation that I can then eroticize, but it was, I also have a slight latex allergy, so this is me indulging…you too?
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, I can’t use latex condoms at all. You know, I get really red.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Me too. Okay, but it doesn’t bother your skin. So we suffer for our pleasure. That’s the marker of a sadomasochist.
Goddess Gabrielle
I’m good.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I think it was like some combination of those things that I was like I probably shouldn’t like be encased like I can’t put latex inside me I probably shouldn’t be in case like head to toe and my text but like what doesn’t a Benadryl fix you know like a little
Goddess Gabrielle
You look iconic, you look beautiful.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Well, thank you. I think there is something that’s so fun about latex that takes you out of the human, like the way it’s been used in like fashion and cinema and like the iconography of superheroes and just like, and monsters, know, like of the like monstrous feminine and how, I don’t know, I think it like, takes away, I love seeing submissives in latex as well, like just like completely anonymous and like just like an inky black void for me to like project my desire onto them. I don’t know, it’s like, yeah, it’s like dehumanizing but in an empowering, like not necessarily like a humiliating way, which I feel like they often go hand in hand.
Okay, so you got your first catsuit and just… So it was… Like what was it about it that made you be like… Because I feel like latex can be a fetish, it can be like a lifestyle, it can be something you wear for sexy reasons, can be something you wear for like fashion reasons, and… It makes sense to me that so much of your content is in latex, if that’s like what you feel like happiest and most comfortable with. I’m wondering if you could talk like a little bit more about like what, what that is, like how people respond to you in latex. does it shift something about how you carry yourself?
Goddess Gabrielle
Yes. I think with the latex, my first piece, I was like, okay, I’m probably gonna go pretty balls deep with the collection. And then the more latex I got, the more people started funding more latex. And then it’s almost like a phenomenon. The more latex I wear, the more people want to see me in latex. And then I’m like…
You know, I’m budgeting out like a certain amount of money every month to like fund the latex and then I have my subs buying, know, me more latex and honestly, the number can’t talk, but the number one comment that I’ve gotten with latex and how it’s so popular with subs is from superheroes. Like the black widow, like the shiny, like
Those suits are, I think, a big trigger for them. And then thinking back, because I’m a huge nerd, I can definitely understand that. And so whenever I put on the suits, I do feel like a totally different person. I feel like I am Goddess Gabrielle. I feel like I am not the real version of me, but probably the version that 13-year-old me would be like, wow, you’re so cool.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Well, I think that’s, I think that’s so true of the persona that we curate. I feel like subs are so like, “I wanna know the real you”. I feel like part of how I approach relating to my persona is that it’s very much a part of me. It’s like the best parts of me and the worst parts of me transmuted into the best parts of me, you know? I got the name Mistress Blunt because I was told I had the subtlety of a metaphoric sledgehammer, which I feel like I’ve gone through a path where I’m like, okay, maybe I need to be nicer or maybe people aren’t ready to hear these truths that I so easily see to being like, no, actually, I think that was the appropriate approach and people just need to catch up. But I do feel like it gives kind of a container to explore different aspects of yourself in ways that like… you know, as a human who needs to sleep and to eat and to feed themselves and to shower and be involved in their communities or with families. That’s not necessarily the part that we’re bringing to the fantasy. And so I feel like the transformation of like…the ritual of getting dressed, whether it’s in latex or lingerie or heels or boots or whatever makes you feel like that most powerful version of yourself. I feel like it’s a really powerful transformation.
Goddess Gabrielle
I do too. And I also love your name. I think it’s very dommy. I love it. Great name.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I did also used to smoke a lot more weed so it definitely had a double entendre to it. So another thing that we also talked about talking about a little bit was religious play, blasphemy and catharsis. And I would love to know a little bit about your relationship to religion and how you incorporate it into play.
Goddess Gabrielle
I grew up very southern Christian, very much so pray the gay away, pray the depression away. For me, and I’m comfortable talking about this, I still suffer with anxiety and depression, but I had pretty severe issues growing up. You’re in puberty and then you’re mentally ill and you know, whatever. But my family, was just always, you know, God’s the answer, God’s the answer. And I remember sitting in my bedroom and praying to God to like cure me, to make me not like girls, to, to not be the person that I am and nobody came. And then, around sophomore year of high school,
I started thinking for myself and I saved myself by being myself. I’ve never felt so like something had a hold on me and then it let go the moment that I was like, I can’t change who I am. I don’t wanna change who I am. I wanna be the best versions of myself, but me being bisexual, pan, queer, that’s not something wrong with me. That’s not something to fix, regardless of the standards of my family, this is who I am. And because I was so down bad for Jesus, I was so down bad for Jesus. Whenever I started kink, taking it seriously, I started using
kink and stuff to heal my inner child and and now it’s like completely turned. I’ve done like Church of GG streams, I just released a clip that’s called ‘Salvation’ and that like, you need to be following a goddess who you can indulge in temptation and you can be yourself and without judgment… It’s very healing for me. I fucking love it and I will do it forever.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I love that. I feel like it’s so powerful to, first of all, thank you for sharing that. I appreciate your vulnerability and I, in hearing you talk about it too, and in like, even in the honorific that you chose for yourself and like thinking about you being young and praying to God and then becoming in touch with that divine spark in yourself and the persona, Goddess Gabrielle. It’s like, I can see you saving yourself from that. And I feel like it’s missing from so much religion that it like takes you away from your own power and agency to get you to conform. And I feel like there’s something incredibly powerful and cathartic in that reclamation of that individual part of you that is, that has access to that divinity. I think that’s really beautiful.
Goddess Gabrielle
Thank you. I get kind of emotional when I think about it, the progression from then to now. I love the religious play. It is very healing for me every time. Every time I do something, it’s very healing.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I love that I like have to look really close to see if you’re wearing a cross or a chastity key around your neck.
Goddess Gabrielle
It’s a key! It’s the Tiffany key one of my subs got it for me, I love it. I wear it all the time.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
So cute. That’s very good. Okay, so was a third variable, which is even better.
Goddess Gabrielle
I have the keys though…the keys to all the cages in my workroom.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Wearing the Tiffany’s one though, it’s symbolic but doesn’t look…
Goddess Gabrielle
It’s modest and subtle for like everyday vanilla life.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
There you go. I feel like something I think a lot about is how our histories and traumas inform our kinks and the way that society tries to tell us that it’s not okay. I’m thinking of the book, ‘Gender Without Identity’ by Ann Pellegrini and Avgi Saketopoulou which is a short, dense theory book about psychoanalysis and gender and like how… people should read it because I’m going to totally distill it down to nothing, but basically that trauma can inform gender, trauma can inform sexuality and that’s fine when it’s for cis or straight people, but when it’s for queer or trans people, it becomes problematized by society.
And I think that one of the reframes in the book that I find so useful is that, whether or not one of our desires comes from trauma is much less interesting of a question than like, what do we do with that? And I feel like it’s so interesting to take blasphemy play as the answer of …well, this is incredibly potent for me. And I’m going to play with it because I think play can be so, so cathartic. I think also so many, I can imagine many people finding peace and solace in the church of Gabrielle with what you’re offering in your ministry, because I feel like so many people experience similar traumas and similar restraints.I feel like it is where a lot of shame and humiliation and many of the things that we play with in BDSM come from, whether or not you’re growing up super religious or just under Christo-fascist patriarchy in the States or around the world.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah. It was so bad. Like, my grandpa won’t eat Oreos, because they made a rainbow Oreo. Embarrassing. And I eat Oreos all the time. Gosh. Yes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Imagine you doing an Oreo humiliation clip. (both laugh). It’s so interesting to me. The question of like, what do we do with our trauma? I think it’s present in so much of the content that we make and also why the mommy domme archetype of that like, slightly humiliating but also very nurturing archetype is also so powerful even in what you were talking and about your approach to Blasphemy in your church. It’s like… I accept you for being such a fucking degenerate pervert. I love that you found something that really works for you and that is so cathartic. I do feel like whether it’s religion, through the constraints of religion, constraints of gender, I don’t know, forced… I feel like forced bi clips are such an interesting example of this, of whether or not the person is gay, if they are bi, whether they really do want to suck a dick, whether they need the domme to encourage them for it to triangulate into an erotic experience or they are denying part of their sexuality, you know, to me it doesn’t always matter as long as people are questioning it and interested in what they’re doing with those desires because I feel like we are taught to shut them down.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, I think we give people space to find out who they are, like, especially like with societal norms, like, I think that we we do like a like a humane service for some people, like giving them a safe space to figure out who they are, like the forced bi stuff, like, a lot of people probably fetishize it. But for some people, like it, it might be the they need to like, even have the conversation exactly what you’re saying.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Yeah, I’ve found that a lot in my… I’ve done a lot of like…
I’ve called it gender play rather than sissification. I’ll use the key terms because I want people to find me. But like, in how I write about gender play, I don’t do a ton of very specific humiliation with it. I’m like, if you’re humiliated by this, let’s use that as a fertile seed. I think because of that, I’ve had a lot of people who are questioning their gender or have a flexible relationship with their gender or understand gender to be largely a social construct and most people are somewhere on a continuum of gender… I’ve had a lot of people explore their gender with me through the context of BDSM and gender play and sissification clips and
I wonder what part is the gentle mommy encouragement and less like, hard humiliation. Because I think there’s many reasons to be into something when you’re questioning your gender. You think being a woman is submissive. So like getting in touch with your feminine side, like allows you to submit or like you do have like thoughts and ideas about your gender and want to explore that. But yeah, I don’t know, I agree with you. I think there’s so much space given to be given for people to explore in that way.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, and I feel like for everybody it’s so individualistic with their journey, like exactly what you’re saying. Like some people find it humiliating to be considered like a sissy. Some people find it liberating. They’re like, maybe this is like a step towards like, you know, on my trans journey. You know, I feel like it’s so individualistic for everybody. And the best part in my opinion is that beyond consensual safe play there’s no moral codebook to practice BDSM because everybody’s on their own Individual journey for different reasons. They want to play a different way a certain way that is molded completely To cater to them and what they need.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I love this idea of like, I don’t know if it’s quite what you said, but of like individual ethics. right, there’s like safe, sane and consensual, risk aware kink And then I think it’s like time to move like slightly beyond that because I think like, when we think about risk, we’re often not talking about like the emotional risk of the things that can come up in like intimate relationships or when you’re being vulnerable that like you could never anticipate. And so I think I don’t even I don’t know that I have the language for it, but it’s sort of like being open to what happens when we do risky things and like not just being like, okay, like I accept that harm might happen, but being like what rupture is necessary? Like kind of like stepping into the wound and being like, what can come from this? sure, there might be like opportunities for repair, potentially not, but that like edge and boundary being like what’s, what I find like incredibly interesting and like the most profound, transformative scenes. And I… like the idea of like us being our own moral agents of playing with people who have similar ethos and like ethics behind what they’re interested in doing.
Goddess Gabrielle
I feel like we have our own moral compasses. And I also feel like that moral compass is dictated by like, you know, you and whoever you’re playing with. Like, so and, you know, that’s just like where communication is like key. And sometimes you, you aren’t prepared for like a reaction, you can prepare in every way possible. But then, you know, this thing happens or like they have this emotional reaction like neither one of you could have prepared for that. And then it’s just navigating from there. So yeah, I agree.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Yeah, I think about a lot this situation I had when I was playing with someone and we had like a very heavily, like a very heavily negotiated scene and then I either, I think I said something that was within bounds or I think it was, I took my hand off to put it on someone else and it just like, they might now share that that’s something that would not feel great in the context of a scene, but they would have had no knowledge of that prior to it. So it’s like both in that rupture, there’s space to like learn about yourself. And also I think it’s so important when like negotiating scenes and that like being prepared for the unexpected emotionally and like what I like to ask like, you know, like what do we do when something comes up? Like not if it does, because it’s just, if, I don’t know, I think if you’re doing good play and like seeking, you know, transformation, like something is gonna come up if you’re like really in touch with yourself.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, I agree. I’ve had one time kind of similar to that, where like a reaction that this sub had a reaction that we both weren’t expecting. And we just kind of navigate it from there. It’s kind of it’s kind of crazy. Like once again, how healing or triggering BDSM can be. sometimes the reactions are random,
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I love what you said, how healing or triggering too, because I feel like they’re not necessarily like mutually exclusive if you’re able to like navigate it to or like be seen and held in that trigger.
I think BDSM can also just be horny and perverted and have no transformative impact on someone’s life other than getting you off and feeling amazing in that way. But I also do think for people who are interested in going a step deeper, there really is.
I don’t know, I think it can either be like a fun, sexy modality or just like… or a way to get to know yourself better.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, yeah, some people just need their balls hit to cum and that is what it is. There’s no story behind it, it’s just hot.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
so because I like have this lifestyle background where I like, like to like extract the use from people and like, my expertise is in submissive training more so than like a specific like fetish. when someone was chatting with me on my fan site, I was trying to get to know them and like have a personal connection with them and he goes, excuse me, ma’am, I’m just trying to jerk off. I’m like, okay, okay, I forgot, my bad.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, I get it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Yeah, but I was like, I’m so interested in the D/s connection and the dominance and submission more so than like, like, it becomes erotic for me through power exchange and through like, actual power exchange. And I think one of the ways that happens in something else we talked about chatting about is financial domination and the role that plays in our practice and for me, financial domination is like one of the ways to make power most concrete. And I’m curious like how you play with femdom and findom and like how you see them being related, different or integrated into your domination practice.
Goddess Gabrielle
So I think the origin and the intensity of financial domination stems from once again, societal standards. The more money you have, the more successful people in society eyes, like a doctor would be more appealing than like a restaurant worker. It’s almost like a… It’s like a tiered system. It’s like, where are you in society? And because we have such a strong like hold on the value of money, giving up your money, I think is one of the most powerful forms of power exchange. think of all the money you have and think about, know, giving it away to somebody. That’s an insane exchange. And I think people, yes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Also a religious one, right? Like we’re talking like driving it like fits financial domination fits squarely in religious blasphemy play.
Goddess Gabrielle
In my streams, I literally like add to my offering plate, like, you know, send it all. So yeah, I think I think financial domination is, one the most powerful things, forms of a power exchange and femdom whatever it’s.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Do you remember when you like first got acquainted with Findom?
Goddess Gabrielle
It was whenever I started taking the online stuff more seriously and so I had a sub and he would, you know, tip me like very often and that wasn’t abnormal. Um, but he was like, you know, I want, um, like tell me how much you want. And I was like, okay. And I was like, go get me the TV off of my wishlist and then he did. It was like a $600 TV. Then I was like, okay. And then because of that, I started promoting o my Twitter. I would screenshot people sending me money. And then I want to say within the past two years, my foothold in financial domination has gotten a lot more extreme. It’s very direct. It’s very direct domination. You know, if you want access to me, you have to spend. Like we are a luxury to have, like we’re not a need, we’re not the toothbrush in your bathroom, like we are a luxury. And so it’s like the more it kept happening, the more I’m almost like addicted to it. I’m almost like addicted to the fetish.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I love that framing too of like, that professional domination is also like the performance of a submissive’s desires rather than like a manifestation of like a conglomerate of our desires. And so hearing you talk about it, of feeling that same frenzied state is how I’ve also described it with my submissives of, you know, someone might enter a flow state when they’re sending to me, like I’m getting that same high and that same dopamine hit and I think it’s it’s both one of the most tangible forms of power exchange and… I like what you were talking about, of… you know, we do live in a capitalist society where money dictates so much. When I talk about findom I’m also like, financial domination is the only exchange in a D/s dynamic that I can think of where I actually walk away from the situation with more power than I started. So the power exchange is made concrete by the transaction wherem you know, if I’m kicking someone in the balls repetitively and they are feeling very disempowered, I’m feeling very powerful in that situation. Nothing has been changed or transformed outside of that play in that space and someone understanding what their place is in my life. But when I leave the dungeon, nothing has, I don’t want to say that it’s not meaningful… It can be emotionally meaningful or spiritually meaningful or incredibly connective to have that type of experience with someone. But the material realities of my life have not changed unless there is a monetary exchange. That’s why I also like service because I think that service is a way to engage in shifting the material realities of someone’s life, if they’re not in a position to engage regularly in financial domination. I’m interested in power. And so without power, I find play quite uninteresting. You talking about like, you know, getting to see someone sending you that $600 TV and then you have that TV in your house and you think about it and you post about it and then more people are excited to send to you. It makes you feel kind of drunk.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, like it’s it’s intoxicating beyond like the financial or materialistic gain of financial domination. Once again, it it turns me on. It enriches my life, adds value to my life and takes away that value from them. The power exchange I think is so hot. I have an amex card of one of my subs and even just getting a $5 coffee, I’m like, yeah, bitch. It’s almost like I’m fucking them right there. You know what I’m saying?
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I do, it is, and I think that’s why BDSM can be so powerful because it can turn this mundane experience of going to get coffee that you do every day and take it out of the everyday and transform it into this spiritual connection. I have one of my subs cards and I have a little sticker for it that has a little rubber ducky in bondage on it and whenever I pay for something with it… I get hit on all the time when I use the card which I think he would appreciate knowing.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, like it’s a big form of service submission, power exchange. It hits a lot of boxes. And it’s also just people who are truly into the sending money, like it really does turn them on. I’ve seen like, beyond my frenzy and greed, seeing their reactions to being like, look at this sexy number goddess, look at this one. And you know, it’s just, it’s sweet and sexy. I orgasm so hard to sends.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I do feel like I’m happy you’re saying that because I feel like despite Femdom being based on the supposed pleasure of women, it’s so often about the orgasm of a submissive. And so I think when we are able to engage in activities that really touch something for us and are really arousing for us, it’s so exciting. And I think our subs know, you know, if it’s because I have that same experience, like I want to, you know, like my phone, like the cash app notification, like my phone vibrates with it too. So like if you’re sending and sending, like it’s like almost like a vibrator, it like totally transforms my phone into this other device and this like erotic device.
Goddess Gabrielle
That’s a hot POV.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Okay, that’s a good one. I love it. Yeah, because I totally could cum from if it was coming in enough. I do have a feeling that the payment processors would interfere though…would like cock block me. Do you have this experience? I’m like, in the middle of something really hot. I’m jerking off and getting all these sends and demanding more and just feeling greedier and greedier and then all of a sudden they’re like, “my bank!” And I’m like, “fuck your bank”.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yes, that has happened a couple times and every time it happens I’m just like, it almost kills the vibe.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I do think it’s an interesting point in the exchange too, because it’s also like a notification that it’s gone past the point of your regular spending. It’s gone past the point of what your bank has determined you should be spending your money on. And then you have to go past that barrier to continue the exchange.
Do you see Femdom without findom? What is the relationship between the two for you and now that you’ve been doing it and like you said, you have more of a foothold in financial dominatio as we like progress in our career, the barrier to entry gets higher, which I feel like is not quite findom, but can be erotically related.
Do you see Femdom without findom?
Goddess Gabrielle
No, I don’t think so. I think for lifestylers, I know that there is this like kind of divide like this this kind of like a war between pro dommes and lifestylers usually like some lifestylers don’t believe that you should make any sort of money off of BDSM and student. Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
“It taints it, the purity of domination!” (Laughs)
Goddess Gabrielle
I don’t get that at all because sex work is literally the oldest job of all time.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Like… in BDSM leather communities, so much of the relationships and were like funded by queer and trans sex working people. So the fact that it’s like I know exactly what you’re talking about of that like old guard. I’m gonna say like cis white dude who is also like… “how do I know you’re really into it if you’re getting paid” or like “how do I know this is really what you want” rather than I actually want to surrender power and this is an area where I have power to surrender.
Goddess Gabrielle
It’s really disappointing to see the divide. I think I got off topic a little bit, I genuinely do not think that you can have femdom without financial domination, honestly. Even if it’s not necessarily a service that you provide or participate in often, in order for you to be a pro, you kind of have to kind of be making money.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
No, I like where you brought us.
Goddess Gabrielle
And I think that even the act, even though paying for services is not the same as financial domination, the financial aspect of it, I think is once again a power exchange. you’re paying for your needs to be met. Let’s say like you’re, you want a no strings attached dynamic, or you don’t have the opportunities right now for play all the time. So you visit this one girl once a month. You know what I mean? Like I think… the paying for the service is is a type of power exchange and and that’s money. What do you think?
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I feel pretty similarly to you and I think it’s like… I am uninterested in power exchange where someone is just going through the motions of performing the surrendering of power to me. So something that I do a lot in my submissive training, I love giving people findom fetishes. I think one of my skills as a domme is instilling my fetishes in other people and like getting them, I have on my blog
this like 7,000 words on financial domination. It’s like my manifesto, my treaties, like my magnum opus. And really the TLDR is like, this is why you should be into financial domination. And I love doing that work because I feel like it is so taboo, right? It’s so taboo, right? Men are like taught that they should be afraid of the woman, the trophy wife or the gold digger or the woman who’s like just going after them for the money. And I think it can be cathartic to like flip that and just completely surrender to it. And I think it can also be cathartic to like understand why that’s so vilified because women are supposed to be kept as meek. Women are supposed to be subservient. Like you are supposed to be controlling women. And when women have access to these financial resources, they need to be vilified so that they can be controlled. I feel like this goes back to what we’re talking about religion too. And I’m thinking of, I’m doing research right now, so I’ve been reading a lot of theory, but of Silvia Federici’s work, ‘Wages Against Housework’, and the talking of compensation for women’s labor and reproductive labor that is largely expected to be free. And so I think, Femdom, maybe not financial domination, but femdom cannot happen for me without actual power exchange. Otherwise I’m just performing for someone’s fantasy. for me, especially like when I’m playing with someone online, I think that financial exchange is one of the most concrete ways of playing with power that someone can feel like the ramifications and the impact of my power over them as well as like surrendering like as you’re saying like to like the offering plate like passed around and like tithe and yeah I’m interested in that power exchange and having people eager to surrender.
I don’t need submissives who get off every time they send to me or understand themselves to have a financial domination fetish or I don’t always pursue financial domination with the intention to ruin someone or completely like wipe them out. Like I actually really enjoy sustainable dynamics. And I think people often think of findom as like the send send send send send send until you have nothing left. I think it can be a hot exchange but I also, as I said from my trying to get to know people on my fansites and them being like what the fuck are you doing? I’m interested in ongoing relationships so I think for me, has to be, so they don’t have to get off anytime they send me something. They’re like, that’s a bonus if I can convince them that they should, but they do need to be invested in my success and invested in their surrender. And so if there’s other ways for them to do that, I’m open, but it is one of the most profound ways.
Goddess Gabrielle
Exactly, I agree because you can’t really serve if you don’t have selfless desires. If you’re not willing to sacrifice, I don’t think that you’re in a position to truly serve a goddess or a Mistress.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I like the word sacrifice there a lot because I think that is what financial domination is like at its core is like the greed, the desires and the worship of a domme through that sacrifice and surrender, which is really religious. I feel like the religious and findom, feel like part of what’s so fun about it for me is that it subverts so many of these cultural norms where I can like demand not only compensation but like a continual more and more of like desire and resources and abundance in this way that I’ve been taught not to.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, you hit the nail on the head.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I find that… I don’t know if empowering is the right word, but hot definitely is. I think my last question is… we talked a little bit about homewrecking fantasies, so I feel like we’ve talked about the nurturing mommy domme, the sensual sadist, the Findomme, the religious blasphemy play and then there’s this more “Mean” archetype, this ruinous archetype, I’m curious a little bit about that. I just finished shooting a homewrecking series and I feel like I leaned too deeply into my nurturing mommy domme that my incredibly evil bitchy self of “I want to ruin your life and fuck you up forever” got kind of tainted so I was like, okay we need balance. I’m curious what that’s like for you.
Goddess Gabrielle
This was the question that I was most nervous about. also, I, so I’ve done home wrecking clips, I’ve done home wrecking fantasy sessions, but I’ve never, ever, ever crossed the line of from fantasy to reality. And I see a lot of girls and men and theys and thems and I’ve seen a lot of people in the community post screenshots of, you know, texting someone’s spouse. And it’s so hard because like I don’t do domme wrecking or anything like that. Like I’ll say like elitist stuff for the brand, but I’m very much so like if you need me, I’m here, whatever I can do to help you because people, you know, people helped me. So like when I think of home wrecking, it’s usually because of the client base men, which most of them are with women, a lot of them anyway. And then I think like, fuck, like I do have sometimes like a moral qualm with myself of like, yes, I can’t help if like a married person comes around and sessions with me. But sometimes like if they’re wanting a very like intense like home wrecking, like fantasy stuff, sometimes I will turn them down, especially like if they’re wanting me to incognito like email their girlfriend or it kind of makes, yes. And it kind of, it kind of makes me feel bad and it makes me scared. but I also find the fantasy pretty hot too, to like almost isolate.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
It kind of goes with blackmail…
Goddess Gabrielle
Almost like a emotional isolation, like bondage or something, isolating a sub to truly dedicate their whole lives to me regardless of the consequences. I also like that too. So I just kind of go back and forth on that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Yeah, I get that. I feel like it’s interesting where fantasy rubs up with your own moral compass. I have no issue with it, but I’m also never going to involve someone’s partner in something. I feel like my earliest exploration of kink was teasing men with girlfriends to the point where I’d have them pinned against a wall and begging to fuck me just so I could get them to admit that they would cheat on their girlfriend with me, and then I’d leave. I didn’t know what I was doing or have language around like, tease and denial, but because of the boundary of girlfriend I was going to respect that whether or not they would. Not that I always did, but most of the time. It added this layer of bondage within it and restraint that allowed me to have a lot of fun there. I don’t know, I recently shot a homewrecking series that was really fun. And it’s not something that I would do in real life of I’m having them put in AirPods during sex so they can like, listen to the sound of my voice while they’re fucking their wife. If they do, that’s on them. I think people need to like be responsible for what their actions are. And while you might need to ruin your marriage and fuck up your life, you’re the only one with the power to do that, especially because I’m not gonna be speaking to your wife unless she is reaching out to me.
Goddess Gabrielle
That’s such a hot video by the way. I’m very inspired. The fantasy, everything you’re saying…sexy. The reality is where it scares me. Like if they show up at my front door and they’re like “I left her!” and I’m like, “who are you?” That’s where it gets me. But I love the concept. I love the fantasy. It is hot.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I have one sub right now who’s like, questioning why they might be into it. And like, it’s just a fantasy. I’m like, we’re allowed to have fantasies that we don’t want to happen. just like what I was talking about, the gender play and people approaching for all of the, you know, maybe you just think it’s hot to like jerk off in panties, and there’s nothing else to see here or maybe you think it’s hot to think about like this aspect of your life being completely ruined and destroyed by this powerful force that like you don’t have the power to make the changes you want in your life. So the only thing that you can focus on and fantasize about is this external power coming in and wreaking destruction on your life in a way that you’ll see like will free you. And I think for a lot of people, it doesn’t necessarily mean that their relationship is bad for them. And I think it gives people this feeling of like, does this mean I hate my wife or does this mean that I hate my partner or something like that that I’d fantasize about that? You know, it can, there’s a reason for the fantasy, but the fantasy is often not necessarily the thing you actually want to happen. There’s a reason you’re fantasizing about it. And again, I think it comes back to …oh, well, what are you going to do with that information? Are you going to make steps to make your marriage better? Or are you just going to keep buying my content and blaming your wife for the issues in your marriage?
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, exactly. I need to know, is homewrecking something that you like, consider you specialize in, like the fantasy?
Mistress Danielle Blunt
You know, I think this might be my first home wrecking clip series I’ve made, but it goes back to like my very roots of kink. So I think I like, I got off my path and I need to get back on the straight and narrow.
Goddess Gabrielle
I’m going to buy all of them.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
This is inspiring me to make one of my early chaos that I would muster. Because it was, I had no search terms to look up the kink that I was interested in, because I had no idea. It was just the distillation of power that I could see with the restraint, with the girlfriend as bondage, kind of. So they would kind of…
be trying to say no and I could like watch their resolve slowly go away over and over again until I either got what I wanted or could like no thanks I just wanted to know that you would fuck me I just wanted to know you would ruin your relationship for me
Goddess Gabrielle
That is one of the hottest things I’ve ever heard actually.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I’m flattered. I was so young and evil.
Goddess Gabrielle
I love it. We need more.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Well, I’m glad I asked the question. You almost got away without having to answer. I think of it kind of like… I’ll make an Executtrix clip.
Goddess Gabrielle
I’ve been exploring that recently. One of my subs probably for about a year now. I’ve been doing a lot of private sessions of that kink.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
It’s hot and it’s like, am I gonna do it? Like, I don’t wanna go to jail. no, thank you. or like so many fantasies don’t need to become reality. And I feel like people get caught up in that of you know, what does it mean if I want this rather than like, I want this. Like, what am I going to, what am I gonna do?
Goddess Gabrielle
That’s true.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
With that, which sounds like hiring a hot domme to explore your death drive is the way to go.
Goddess Gabrielle
Yeah, one of my clients is very into like the Poison Ivy, kiss of death kind of thing. Like dark lipstick, “the lipstick has poison in it I’m to poison you”… you know, I feel like I’ve learned something new every day. I never stop learning. I never stop evolving. And I never stop being turned on by all of this weird shit that subs bring up to me. And I’m like, okay, I think I could maybe be into that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
I think it’s fun when people can convince each other this thing is, is hot, like not even persuade them, but just like their desire is so potent and exciting that like, you know, it’s contagious. It’s like, I wasn’t into that before, but seeing how into that you were did something for me that moved me to relate to it kind of differently.
And I feel this that way in this conversation. It was so lovely to chat with you and get to know you a little bit better. And I just love meeting fellow perverts who are in it for the, you know, for the perversion.
Goddess Gabrielle
This has been, I couldn’t have asked for a better first interview experience. So thank you so much. This has been great. Thank you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Yes, I’m so excited to chat with you. And if people want to find you, where can they do so? If people want you to ruin their lives or join your church.
Goddess Gabrielle
You can send my $50 tribute and then you can message me on Twitter or Instagram or one of my paid sites. Loyal Fans is my new primary now.
Mistress Danielle Blunt
Amazing, I love that, same here. And if you wanna find me, you can Google Mistress Blunt and click on all of the variety of links. I’m on most social media, a lot of it is catfishes. So be sure you’re talking to the right person or fill out my contact form. Thank you again, Goddess Gabrielle. This was so lovely to chat with you.
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