What is Tease and Denial?
Tease and Denial is the practice of delayed sexual gratification. Especially when I play with teasing out desires, I like to put a heavy emphasis on the denial. Another element of tease and denial plays with tension and withholding to increase arousal. Your desires dangling just out of your reach. This can be a great way to elongate a sexual experience and incorporate power play into your sex life. Playing with delayed gratification is a fun way to experiment with kink in the bedroom for beginners. It is an integral part of seduction fantasies. Many Tantra practices incorporate similar elements of delayed gratification
Tease and Denial can bring up feelings of frustration, helplessness, and vulnerability. I love to keep a submissive in this state because I find it makes them more malleable and eager to please me. Dangling the potential of an orgasm to a sexually denied submissive, it is good ammunition to get my way. I like using the far off promise of a potential pleasure to dangle and torment my submissive.
For me, tease and denial is one of my earliest kinks. Before I even had language for this fetish, I was playing with prolonging the build up of sexual interactions. I enjoy knowing the impact that I have over people. I enjoy the power of being able to deny someone what they really want. Watching someone’s resolve deteriorate as they get more and more desperate, worked up and eager to beg and please me. The tease has always been so much more interesting for me than the release. Don’t you agree?
Why are people into Tease and Denial?
Tease and denial puts the focus on sensation and what is happening in the moment. It takes the focus off of orgasm. Tease and denial can be a great fetish to explore for people who experience premature ejaculations or erectile dysfunction. This is because it takes less pressure off of an orgasm, as an orgasm is not the point! Incorporating tease and denial into your sex life can be a great way to feel your partner’s control over you without playing with pain or implements.
Is this a form of BDSM?
Tease and denial is a great way for newbies to experiment with BDSM. To incorporate elements of tease into your sex life you don’t need any toys or implements, you just need a spark of creativity. Playing with denying your partner or delaying their gratification is a simple way to play with power. Both the tease and the denial can be used as a form of exercising sexual control over your partner in a negotiated scene.
Ideas to try to incorporate tease and denial into your sex life
- Making a partner beg for more, and making them earn it.
- Wearing sexy lingerie under a dress and showing off your garters at dinner.
- Experiment with sensory deprivation, depriving a partner of one of their senses and verbalizing what they are missing.
- Tie up a partner up and tease them
- It can also be a form of orgasm control where a partner brings you to the edge of orgasm over and over again before (if ever) letting their partner orgasm.
- Play the role of the seductress, teasing your partner in public and waiting to get back to your room to ravish them.
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